Eye opening Distributor E-mail

Here is some mail I have received from site readers who are or were distributors. 

HI

My husband and I got sucked into this thing 7 years ago. Without elaborating, I feel like I did when I was young and got cheated on by a boyfriend.

Now I am only a product user because there are some products I genuinely like.

Anyway, once I tried to get my free box of Double X after purchasing 10. My upline was who I had to go through to get this to happen. At any rate they talked me out of requesting my free box because it would take away pv and bv. Now what is my recourse against this happening again? I'm MAD!

Becky

Scott, I think your site is great, truthful and informative, I still technically am a Amway distributor but I have been off of tools since December of 1999. I do not have time to go into my story now, but it is the same basic story, Being mislead into thinking I could retire in 2 to 5 years with 8 to 10 hours a week, and being bullied and coerced into buying tapes. I also noticed how they loved using tapes and cd's to contact with and then would change (update) the tapes so me and other Amway lackees would have to buy more contacting tapes to be duplicable.(Everyone else is buying the new contacting tapes.) I have no intention of every doing Amway again. I realized this in January of February of 2000 and came across your wonderful site yesterday.

I realize you are not a lawyer and probably do not want to be a counselor to broken down abused Amway distributors, but to you have any advice any and legal action or any way I can get my money back from the couple of thousand dollars I spent I tools myself.

If you are unable to do either one I understand, Great site you are doing in invaluable service to America. One year ago, I would have thought you were the biggest jerk in the world.

I appreciate your information. I guess I just need to vent about my interaction with Quixtar and wanted to send it to you. I stupidly signed up to be an IBO, I thought I was helping a friend of a friend of mine. I don't need extra income but I did it anyway.

My upline gave me a tape that had her upline (who would be running a seminar) on it. I was turned off because it felt like a sell job - bullshit story.

When I went to the meeting/seminar I was amazed when everyone stood up to madly applauded her. I refused to stand and really questioned what I had gotten myself into. Very cultish. She proceeded to describe a trip all these distributors took together and what a happy family they were, but then turned around and berated these distributors for not working hard enough....her tone of voice bordering on abuse.

The next day my upline called and said that she noticed how I closed off and she was concerned. I said that I have been a very successful salesperson for over twenty years and I didn't like or respect the way this speaker plays the game. It made me question how good this product is. She told me that she was shocked because this woman was extremely successful and she's a mentor to her (blah, blah, blah). I said that since my reputation was on the line I would only continue if I tried the service myself and found it to be of value.

I went on the internet and found a lot of sites against Amway/Quixtar, but I decided to do more research, so I asked people I knew....I wasn't interested in making them distributor's but to give me feedback on this cybermall. It turned out that almost every person I talked to said, "If it has anything to do with Amway forget it." So I called my upline and said, "This company has a very poor image, I believe it is too difficult to get past that, and the prices are way to high." She told me that the company isn't Amway (!!!!!!) and that I hadn't attended enough meetings to really know how to sell it. I said that it doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out what the product is, and if it was such a fabulous deal why do I have to go to 50 million meetings to learn what??? To manipulate? Then she started screaming at me, "I knew you would be difficult! Your not even willing to learn how to sell it properly." So I wished her the best of luck and hung up on her.

The funny part is she had given me a script to use and it was abusive selling. What a sad and disgusting company if they have to bully people. Didn't they say the mall sells itself when people see what a good deal it is?

Again, thank you for your informative site, I'm sure I would have been frustrated and angry if I would had stayed with it longer.

My real disappointed comes from the thought that the heads of this organization are Christian. I am a Christian myself and I am deeply saddened to think that people will believe all Christians behave this way. It becomes a Jim Baker, Tammy Faye bull-shit game, where these greedy pigs who head this company are more concerned about the almighty dollar, than doing what is right. What a sad commentary.

I was in the Britt Worldwide system under Jay and Erika Beeson. My upline Diamond was Paul Miller. I have already called Quixtar and cancelled my membership as an IBO. Oh well, I have about 30 bags of spaghetti to show for it.

I already know that they are not people that I want to be in business with. They are deceitful, but unfortunately, don't see it that way because they think they are helping people by what they are doing.

One of the questions I asked was concerning an approach that they were trying to get me to use on my former boss. I was explaining to them that this guy was very intelligent and I needed some real numbers so that he could see the benefit. They said just to tell him that I was thinking of getting into this business and wanted his opinion before I "run" with it. Well, in my mind that was a flat out lie because I was already in the business and running with it and I wanted him into the business as well. That led me to another question. Why all the secrecy and curiosity approaches? If the products are so good and they provide value above that which you can buy anywhere else, why can't I just show them the plan with a product demo and/or tell them the whole story over the phone or something? Why do I have to lure them into the business. If it is so profitable, why can't the business sell it self? They said that it was because people are generally lazy and you have to get them in with curiosity and keep them in with motivational material and the wonderful "family" atmosphere that we provide. Then came the biggest discouragement -- I went online to buy my products so I could do my 100PV for that month. The Amway products give you the highest return but I wouldn't need cleaning products and makeup every month and with that alone wouldn't make my PV anyway. I bought in bulk about $250 worth of food. I committed to not buying anything that I wouldn't normally buy in the store keeping in mind that I am just "buying from myself" and not Walmart. Well, after all that I had 68PV for that month mainly because anything you buy on ditto delivery doesn't get credited to your PV for 60 days, which reminds me -- it is the 21st and I still haven't received all of my stuff that was supposedly processed on June 6. I would have had to sell products to make up the rest. They advised me not to spend my time selling products. Spend my time listening to tapes, reading books, and calling everyone on my list. Well, I'm not that stupid. That's when i went searching for answers and I remembered them complaining about the internet being bombarded with anti-amway messages so that's where I started.

I'm a former distributor. Although I must stress that I never got into Amway with any intention of doing anything with it. I just did it to appease my father-in-law, who is obsessed with Amway/Quixtar. I realized from the first meeting that the only way this would work is if (1) you never personally buy the products (because I insisted on seeing a catalog and easily recognized that the prices were generally far higher than were available elsewhere), but get your downline to buy them; and (2) never (and I mean NEVER) get involved with purchasing BSM's yourself, but sell them to others once you get a share of the loot (which you'll never get if you don't buy them I hear). Since both alternatives required me to check my ethics at the door, I decided early on that I was not going to get actively involved. My wife did try to run a retail vitamin business by selling Nutrilite through doctor referrals (we'd sign up a doctor, he or she would make the "Nutrilite absorbs better" pitch to his patients and my wife would make a follow-up call and make the sale, that way there was no "in office" transactions).

We made about $600-$800/month in bonus but since almost everyone knew someone who was willing to sell at distributor pseudo-wholesale to get the PV, we had to sell without a markup too. Consequently, it took a lot of time to make a small amount of money retailing so we stopped after about six months. Other problems included (1) an unreliable drop ship system with extremely poor customer service (the cs reps were used to giving abuse to brainwashed Ambots who, as you might suspect, are apparently willing to take a lot of abuse. The reps were not at all familiar with dealing with people as retail customers); (2) ceaseless headaches getting credit for returned merchandise; and (3) greatly inflated prices even at pseudo-wholesale that made many customers just about swallow their tongues when we quoted prices ("$40/month for daily multivitamins! What the ...!").

Sad to say, my father-in-law is still deeply involved. Since he runs a retail system modeled on our short-lived business, he is a direct who actually qualifies every month. But with the amount of time he spends on recruiting and BSM's, I think his bottom line is still quite low. In fact, when you factor in opportunity costs or the value of his own time I'm sure he's in the red.

Scott:

You have done a great job with your web site. I was an Amway distributor for about three years. I just could not handle the extreme oddities (sick demands?) of the "business" any longer.

My husband and I would just like to thank you for opening our eyes to the Amway/Quixtar lies. We were "recruited" back in August of last year by a couple who promised us the world. "Quixtar is NOT Amway" we were told. I was hesitant, and didn't want to sign up, but they sold my husband the dream. We had a huge fight, and almost split up over it. He believed that he could actually retire from his jobs in two years, and that in fact, he could be making $4,000 a month within four month's time!! This is what they told him. Of course, none of that materialized, and after eight months in "the business" we are almost $5,000 poorer, and our biggest check was $36.00 When a prospect led us to your website, our upline platinum never even responded to our e-mails or Amvoxes. That was it for us. Question their integrity, and they run the other way.

The good news is that we are out. We have been overcharged by Internet services numerous times, been cheated out of Pv and BV for MCI we signed up for. We were just double charged for the Future of Business website, and have been charged retail prices for IBO purchases. Our credit card was charged five straight months for Quixnet ISP, when we had cancelled. Thanks for helping others to avoid these problems.

SCOTT THANK GOD FOR RUNNING INTO YOUR WEB PAGE. WE HAVE ALREADY JOINED THE QUIXTAR BUISNESS, AND AFTER SPENDING ABOUT $350 DOLLARS WE STARTED TO REALIZE THAT SOMETHING WAS WRONG. I FOUND IT STRANGE THAT IN THE BEGINNING THEY TOLD US THAT THE TAPES WERE OPTIONAL,BUT YET THEY WERE PUSHING US TO PURCHASE THE TAPES WEEKLY, AND IF YOU DID NOT PURCHASE THEY MADE IT SOUND LIKE IT WAS NOT GOOD THAT YOU DID NOT BUY. I HAVE TO GET WITH MY SPONSOR AND SEE IF THERE IS A REFUND FOR THE MONEY WE SPENT. THANK YOU VERY MUCH...

Scott,

Great website. Very factual and true. I am a Quixtar IBO who a month into the business sat down and took the time to make a legitimate business plan. I confess that up until that point I was caught up in the hype and excitement. This was all self-induced I might add. I readily, heartily and on my own free will seized the 'dare to dream' side of the business, not wanting to go through the drudge of sitting down and crunching numbers.

But when I did I discovered almost exactly what you have posted on your web site. In order to make 100PV and see my first check from Quixtar, I had to spend well above the illustration used when the plan is shown (the all you have to spend is $200/month). I found it was more in the neighborhood of twice that. The problem I ran into is that while I could find plenty of competitively priced items on the Quixtar site, especially among the partner stores, the PV/BV given was so low that my downlines and I would have to spend a considerable amount to get to a level where I would see a decent amount of money.

You know all of this. In fact, I would almost accuse you of stealing the results from my business plan and the analysis. (I didn't do as extensive of price survey as you did but although my sample size was a lot smaller than all of the products you looked at, the results were very similar. Also didn't know that Amway's sales have decreased so dramatically in the past years.)

After I finished my business plan I realized that the only way to avoid making my business a money losing proposition was to cancel the professional development program I had recently enrolled in (weekly tapes, monthly books, and other 'must have to succeed' tools). So that's what I did. Also saved my business capital by canceling out of an upcoming conference ($150 fee plus $200 for the hotel, plus travel and food).

The site visitor wanted to build a Quixtar retail business. Here is the latest from him.

But when you said "It still means that recruiting members is a lot of effort and minimal payoff with partner stores" you're not kidding!

If a member I referred spends $100.00 at a Partner Store that *was* offering 10% PV/20% BV, at 3% Bonus Bracket, I'd glean a whopping 60 cents! But now, it'll be harder than ever to hit the different bonus brackets, and that 60 whopping cents (at 10%/20%) will drop to an even more impressive (not!) 30 cents (at 5%/10%)! Think of that... 30 cents out of 100 dollars...

When I saw the page with the new numbers (new bonus structure) I was infuriated! But what do I know... If my math is wrong, please correct me. I danced with the numbers, and the picture became sort of dismal...

Thanks for your site, it has been a real eye opener and has brought us back to reality (you dream stealer you).

A remark our upline diamond made makes a lot of sense in light of what we have learnt from your site - he said quote "its a passing parade", he was referring to the masses in Amway. That passing parade has made him and others like him a fortune from the system, building up there hopes, robbing them blind through the sale of materials, and leaving 99% of them disillusioned and financially worse off at the end of the process. I wonder how he and others like him sleep at night?

After many years, I quit Amway. I only hope that I can now undo the damage that was done to my relationship with my family and friends. I cannot believe that I was so easily assimilated into this group of fanatics under the guise that this was a legitimate business.

I realize now that a legitimate business does not operate in the manner of Amway. My friends and family that were critical of the business were labeled losers and I was advised to stay away from them. Whenever I had a question about the business, I was told to speak to my upline. After all, the logic was, my upline had a vested interest in my success. My upline was concerned about his success and mine was dependent upon his.

I was duped into believing that I could achieve my dreams through Amway. This is the dream of money and greed. Through Amway, I could achieve tremendous success and income and therefore be able to live a lavish lifestyle. All of this under the guise of Christianity. I realize now that the continued support of my family and friends is worth more than any wealth I might realize. Without my family, I have nothing.

My Amway upline became involved in all my affairs. Not only did he tell me how to treat my family and non-Amway friends, but he even told me how to behave with my wife. No legitimate company becomes involved in relationships outside of the company. I strongly resent this interference now.

My upline would constantly tell me to listen to more tapes and attend more rallies. I had to remain motivated and locked into the system. I realize now, after I achieved direct status, that this was because my upline received a far greater income from the sale of these tools than he ever received or will receive from the sale of Amway products. This business is such a scam! Cleverly concealed behind the tools distribution is a whole other business that is lining the pockets of those higher in the Amway pyramid.

I am ashamed of myself. Ashamed of the way I treated my family. Ashamed that I was involved in such a sham of a company. Ashamed that I pushed the tools onto my downline. Ashamed that these tools lined the pockets of my uplines.

Great site Scott. Every few years I check in on the web to see the Amway sites and wow! These sites are getting so much better and more professional, first class all the way. I have to thank you for the time and effort you put in. What you are doing through the Internet is allowing people to get the full story. I was in back in the early 80's and we had no such information. It took me a couple of years to wake up; I tried to ignore the facts and just run on hype and hope. I remember one day finding out the tapes only cost 50 to 60 CENTS each in boxes with labels in the quantities they order. It costs us 60 cents and we sell it to you four and now six dollars but we don't make any money on it its a service. Well I threw thousands and thousands of dollars into it but that was years ago and I've totally recovered. But every once in a while I like to come back and visit so I can relive the agony, the lies the hype, the misrepresentations, and be thankful for all the money I'm now saving, and the free time I now have. Think of it I quit and now I'm free.

Scott,

Thanks for your site. I am a new Quixtar IBO and my first sponsor saw your site and then sent it to me. He quit and I am considering it too. I definitely will not buy anymore tools or go to another function. Thought you might like some more Ama-spin quotes from my upline diamond after I sent him a hyperlink to your site.

Q: Do you make money from tool and why isn't this told to new prospects?

A: It is not mentioned because tool rebates are determined by the organization and each organization is different. New prospects are not told because they will not qualify for a tool rebate until they reach Platinum Direct. We are not trying to hide anything if we are asked, then we will answer honestly. (note he would not discuss what the rebate schedule is for tools only if I make it to direct will I get to see)

Q: Why are most consumable product prices double that of Sam's Club?

A: You should not look at the "business" as a consumer. You are in a business and this is a business to business transaction. I'll bet you will never walk out of Sam's with a free shopping cart full of good (i.e. sponsor 9 people at 100pv/200bv and you get $250)

Hi Scott, Am I glad I found your web site and others. Been doing extensive research on Amway oops sorry Quixtar. I signed up 28th of Feb and resigned March 5th. I sensed the upline people in their lovebombing were just not genuine and it was all manufactured. Correspondence from uplines always ended Love Ya, and when they left our home it was hugs all around. AND THESE PEOPLE WERE STRANGERS !! My wife was the skeptic at first, wondering where the money was going. Finally it hit us...must be the Motivational stuff. Then we started calculating all the miles this upline was putting on his car....he has to be putting on a 1000 miles per week!! Minumum. That right there translates into a huge loss. We got suckered into a business development seminar...translation....A rally similar to a religious revival. Fortunately it was the speakers first time and they weren't very good. They said a couple things that stimulated my gray matter. (and fortunately didn't hold my attention for very long) One where she (the speaker) said something in reference to others claiming this was a cult. Well I listened closely and kept an open mind. Then did a little research. I replayed her words over and over in my mind and concluded that she must have been trying to convince her audience of this. The research indicated how they use dangerous mind control techniques. I actually began to promote this thing but couldn't believe all the negativity I was getting. See we looked into it several times in the past, but always leery about it. We then spent several years in the Alaskan remoteness. This may explain why we just didn't hear many negative comments about Amway while we were out of Oregon. So because everyone was so negative I had to do more research on it. Initially the sponsor left a really good book, that made a lot of sense til I got 3/4 through it. The author was then suggesting to get involved with a MLM marketing company to learn how to sell.

Also telling me how I should be buying tapes and seminars and on and on. Then my wife read his second book. By then her skepticism had taken on a more positive tone. I then concluded these books had our mind screwed up. I immediately through all the books and the tapes (didn't bother to listen to them) Who is Robert Kiyosaki anyway ?? He is the author of "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" He has to be affiliated with Amway or the AMO's somehow. My wife said he is wealthy enough he doesn't need to be, but in his book he talks of buying depressed properties for a song...where does he get this money? Has to be associated with Amway. Anyhow I sent my letter to the company to shut down this QUIXTAR thing immediately. My only area of real concern is the sponsor has our SSN #'s hopefully they can't do anything with them. Also I sensed that since we own a very large part of our home we were a target in our neighborhood for sponsoring meetings and such. I also suspect that two people in our upline work for the title company that closed our home. I suspect that they may have looked at this confidential info to target someone like ourselves that have a lot of equity in our home....that way the upline can work us to death til we have to take out a second mortgage and on and on.

Fortunately we were in business in the past with my wife doing a lot of the book keeping. It didn't take us long to see that it just didn't pencil out. And you are right the presentation gives the appearance of exponential growth. We also got in it for with our Alaskan connections we could push products into remote Alaska and it just might be worthwhile......not after we penciled it out. We wanted to set up a web site so we could drop ship with a mouseclick but every time we begin to discuss it the upline steers the conversation to recruiting. I am so glad for the internet exposing this scam. We have decided not to alienate our friends, family and business associates. Thanks again for you site...............................................Mark P

In Amway ten years. Appreciate your sight. Though we are still signed up as distributors we made a conscious decision not to do anything more with the business after reading a number of sights like your own. We did make some money as we did retail products. I would guess that over the last ten years we may have broken even or come out a little on the negative side. You say that Amway distributors do not reveal to recruits that the uplines are making more money on tools than products. Scott I believe that this is because most distributors do not really know. I did not.I began to suspect some things a few years ago and then began to do some calculating and I bean to realize, then I came across a website, quite by accident ( or was it) that confirmed for everything I had suspected.It was a terrible weekend for my wife and I.

We had been lied to. We had been betrayed. This is one of the non-financial wounds that the being in "the business" can bestow on the distributor. Since we stopped buying tapes and going to functions and shopping elsewhere (except for a few products of Amway's we really like) it is amazing how much discretionary income we suddenly have.

As far as cleaning up the barrel through the ADA. Not going to happen. The very people who are the ADA are the apples that are stinking up that barrel. I feel Amway could come clean and clean house very easily, but apparently the will to do so is not there.

 

Dear Scott,

Just wanted to let you know that I appreciate the time and research that you have devoted to creating your site.

My wife and I were involved with Amway for almost three years. We quit the business for several reasons, the least of these being the time and money required to build the business, as so many distributors are quick to list as reasons people quit; for us, it was the deceptions and outrageous lies; but well, that's another story.

Thanks for the info Scott. Now I wonder how anyone can market the Amway products properly. Seriously, are you really and IBO if Amway dictates how you run your business?

Scott,

Thanks for taking the time to produce this page. I had doubts after being "prospected" by someone, and you've reconfirmed doubts. You've saved me a lot of time (and probably money). My first clue was when I got my hands on one of their catalogs, and I was dismayed when I calculated that the prices on the items that I'd be interested were in some cases almost 60% higher than retail. When I asked a wannabe emerald distributor. He told me, "Well, those aren't even the prices. Most products will actually be 20 to 40% less." What was the point of even giving me the catalog!!!!! I'm just glad (and grateful) I found so much information on your page to fill in the gaps to all this. Thanks again.

We were caught up by a sharply dressed businessman who came to us as a friend. Soon we were treated as we were important and we would be rich etc.etc. We felt like we had the world by the tail. So we dove in and sponsored more people than we knew what to do with. We were barely 18 and worked hard. We spent all our savings and even borrowed money to hit pin levels. We had more money being spent on "tools" than anything. We did this for 4years and finally figured it out that we had actually been spending about 20,000 a year in tools , products, and functions. No wonder we were broke. We did however receive some education on motivation, and business, and learned some economics too.

Thanks for your site.

My husband and I joined Quixtar about two and a half months ago and have spent about $1000 on products, tapes, books, videos and seminars. We have received a check for $7.18. Of course, we looked at that and almost laughed. They asked me to come to the meetings and then I realized we had to pay to get in and saw all the stuff to buy to supposedly help my business. I did figure we would incur some additional expense, but when I did the math ... it just didn't look sound financially.

We have since informed our friends that got us in the business about our findings. They are heartbroken. They spent about twice as much as we have and have made about $40. Sad to say we almost spent our beach vacation money on the next big weekend conference. Hey ... we are going to the beach!

ALOHA!

As an ex-Amway Distributor, I can say unequivocally that your site is an excellent resource. It is unfortunate that search engines don't usually display it on the first page (due, no doubt to the manner in which the Amway Corporation has flooded the web with separate sites for each country in which it has opened a market).

I believe that ex-Amway Distributors have a unique perspective on the strengths, weaknesses and dangers of the Amway business model. Your site covers much of the various aspects of the business and does so in an objective, mostly non-threatening manner. I use the term "non-threatening" because I believe that the toughest audience to convey information to are current Distributors who may be experiencing doubts about the business.

Exposure to information on your site may be contradictory to the facts of the belief system upon which distributors depend for their "raison d'etre" and motivation. The psychological dimensions to being in Amway cannot be ignored nor underestimated.

Though I have little time to devote to rallying against Amway, or at least telling the whole story (I have spent the last year de-programming myself, talking to friends about my experiences, etc)

Despite total commitment to "the System" (tapes, books, functions) I only managed to sponsor two new distributors. My highest monthly PV was approximately 175. As you know, this is a very low figure and I received a check for about $7.00. My undeclared loss on the business was $3900 per year (function tickets, tapes, books, airplane tickets, hotel and food costs, automobile gas, wear & tear on my personal car, other business building materials for use with my downline, new business suit).

GREAT PAGE MY IN LAWS ARE IN SO DEEP THEY DONT KNOW MY WIFE OR KIDS

.................SHE IS 2 MILES DOWN THE ROAD

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Hi, Scott:

Just writing to let you know your site is excellent. I lost my marriage to Amway five years ago. I would have loved to have taken Amway on, but didn't have the resources to. I tried everything to get my husband out of it. I am glad to see that there are people like you who are informing the public.

Hi Scott,

I came across your pros and cons of Quixtar web site the other day and it got me to thinking. I have been in the Quixtar business since Sept when it first kicked off. Like you said I have listen to many higher in rank about how they made money with the business. But as time goes on I am seeing your viewpoint very clear. When I try to show the plan to people the first thing that comes up is that "how are we saving money? When the prices are higher?"

Aloha Mr. Larsen,

I just wanted to thank you for saving me from perhaps one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I was on the verge of joining Amway/Quixtar when I decided to see what objective information is out there and to apply a little critical thinking before I took the plunge.

Although there is, understandably, a lot of anti-Amway sites out there, it was yours that stood out as being the most objective and fact filled.

I consider myself to be of at least average intelligence but would have joined without verifying their claims if it were not for a pervasive feeling I had that there was something wrong with the picture they were presenting to me but couldn't quite put my finger on.

My fear now is that because Hawaii is not enjoying the economic growth of the other 49 states, it is creating the breeding grounds for Amway/Quixtar distributors to feed off the frustrations many of us are experiencing as a result. I'll pass your site to everyone on my e-mail list so that they will also be able to make an intelligent assessment should they be approached and showed "the plan".

Thanks again for the valuable information.

 Useful site, Scott. I've been in and out of the business over the last four months; finally did a price comparison and decided that I couldn't sell my friends on losing money - then found your site which confirmed my own price analysis. FYI, I'd pay 79.5% more buying my normal stuff via Quixtar than I would buying it at Safeway!!!

Haven't found it on your site yet, but it's clear to me that no-one who's doing Quixtar is ever going to get the 30% discount, as Quixtar is set up for individual orders, not group orders, so who on earth is ever going to buy case lots?

 

Scott-

I am reading through your page and came to this section. I thought I would share my story. I am eating crow by doing this because my wife told me from day 1 that this business is a fraud. But hey, the truth is the truth, so here it goes...

We joined(guilted into it actually) back in February 1992. After an old friend showed up out-of-the-blue, I agreed to go to an Open Meeting. I was hyped and joined. I caught the dream...and my wife didn't. I was told to follow the dream anyway because I was, in effect, helping my wife. I did and I sponsored about 5 people.

2 months later, my wife went through emergency surgery for ovarian cancer and had to go through 6 months of chemo. Stupid me, I couldn't let the dream die so I pushed ahead during a time when my wife most needed me. At the time I thought I was helping us, but in reality I was not focusing on my family, but on the "business".

I can't tell you how many nights were spent on "running the roads" and the night owls. My upline Emerald was loved by everyone, but my wife thought he was a little Hitler. Let's just say he was very aggressive...in a nice way.

To make a very long story short, we went "direct" after 3.5 years. We were never asked to speak at or host any opens or seminars because we were not "class A" distributors. I agree with you; "if it does not make sense to buy, then don't buy it", "if you can't afford to go to a function, then I will take notes for you", etc. I would try not to guilt these people into doing things that did not make sense to me. As a result we were always the "stepchild direct". Anyway we made some good money for about 3 months...but please note: almost half of the profit was from my portion of the tool bonus. Man, now tools are a story to themselves.

In late 1996, word got out that a crossline Diamond had not given tool bonuses to his downline Emeralds, Directs and Diamonds. As a result, his downline Emerald coordinated a group of other Emeralds and Directs and sued him for the money. It was a big deal because it resulted in at least 2 Diamonds, 4 Emeralds and 10+(I'm guessing here) quitting the business. My upline Emerald (Little Hitler) was also involved in this even though it was a "cross-line" deal. Bottom line is, the whole darn thing fell apart. Can you imagine being a Diamond, investing years building the business, quitting a "regular" job, etc.and then have the whole thing fall apart because of someone else? I count myself lucky that I had not gotten that far!

To say that you are your own boss in Amway is an absolute joke. You are guilted into numerous functions, night owls, etc. You are constantly called by your downline asking questions, or even asking for your help for "non-business" related problems. Amway Diamonds are never at rest. The plan sells you on the potential for living the easy life, but the easy life is not a possibility as an Amway Diamond. After this whole law suite thing, I spent a lot of time with my upline Diamond and discovered this to be fact. I definitely DO NOT want his life style.

I will say that the books helped me a lot. I do credit Amway for giving me desire to succeed. I even credit an upline Emerald (not little Hitler) with giving me money sense and teaching me on how to be debt-free. However, Amway is not the vehicle for me to do that. They used to say in the plan that the "45 year plan" was a terrible vehicle for financial independence. Well, ain't that the pot calling the kettle black!

I am very happy to be out of Amway now. I have a personal rule never to have any regrets in my life, so I will not say that I regret doing it. I do feel bad for the parents in the group who left their children a night. Being a new father myself, I would have never joined this business while raising a small child.

Hey Scott, a while back I sent some e-mails in which I argued with you about the business. I still feel the Amway op. is a great vehicle, but I apologize for the mail. I disagree on a few issues, but you are totally on with the AMOs. I was unaware of the deception involved here, and I was sucked in lke the rest. These people are feeding off a pool of millions who will buy BSMs but will never make it. These guys make money no matter who succeeds. They told me not to reinvent the wheel.

Your site actually made me look into the business a whole lot more.

Thanks. This business can be done without the system, but that also means without the uplines help. I started to ask a lot of questions and they back-doored me and went right into my downline so I would not say anything to "ruin their dreams". Yeah right! I was, however, prepared, and I taped a conversation with my direct. I have tape of him saying he does not enforce the retail sales rule because he does not feel like messing with it. We know the real reason for that. You have saved my butt. Thanks. Who should I give the recording to. The Attorney General? I have several for back-up. Would you like a copy?

The funny part of this recording is that I only called the direct to tell them I wanted to get off the tapes, and he spent an hour and a half trying to convince me otherwise. He also told me not to tell my group of 40+ distributors the real reasons I wanted to leave the business. No surprise, and because of your site I had the recorder ready. This guy was unbelievable, no actually he was pretty good at having an answer to everything I said. What a crock of shit. The tool biz is a pyramid because there is no chance for a beginner to make money like there is on the products side of the biz. This guy tried to work me for that long, and I ONLY WANTED TO STOP THE F_ _ _KING TAPES. The brainwashing is felt by myself now that I can see the light. I truly apologize for slandering you and your site. I now realize you are doing a great service to those who are already in like myself, and to those who are merely looking. I need your help, and I understand if you tell me to shove it. But I now stand for the cause you promote because I was merely a product of the cult when I argued with you. These are some greedy bastard, and they will do anything to get the cash. What can I do to help. I am a very ethical person, and that is why this makes me sick. I fell to my knees with the manipulation of these pros. They are good, and they will continue to work this scam. The Amway scam needs to be cleaned up, and I truly believe in the product side of the biz like any other opportunity. Something needs to be done to help people like me who have gotten washed clean of my own good judgement. The funny thing was that I rejected the system for three years, and I gave in because I needed help, and they would only give it to me if I followed the "system". I now know why thanks to you and many others. I commend you on your mission. Thanks

Hi Scott,

My husband and I are involved with Worldwide Dreambuilders (WWDB). I have been in Amway for over 14 years and my husband has been in it for about 18 years. During that time we have worked with three different motivational systems, Britt, Smiley, and now WWDB. The reason we changed systems was because DD's in our uplines would get into disputes with each other. It is clear to me now that those disputes probably were over the distribution of system money. There isn't that much to fight about in the Amway products business itself. Recently I have noticed a significant increase in our tool purchases. You know, the launch of the new Quixtar business meant that all of the tools had to be revamped as well. We have all new audio cassettes, videos and books. We even have a new information system for prospects. All in all, our tool purchases are up by about 50% over the last few years. Now I don't know whether Rich and Jay are making any money from Quixtar or not, but it is obvious that the real money is already being made by the AMO's in the sale of all this stuff that we "need" for Quixtar. I have had a lot of good experiences with the people in Amway but I am beginning to see the full picture. "Out of control" is a very appropriate description. I was reading the Devos "Directly Speaking" tapes yesterday. It looks like in the 1980's Amway attempted to control some of these abuses but failed. Now the tail is wagging the dog. This seems to be what Don Lorencz is saying.

In all the time I have been in the business I have never known anyone to come right out and inform people that money is made from the system, let alone how much!

Hi Scott,

I was a distributor with Amway a long time ago, and I have to tell you that everything you have stated on your site is fact. I too fell into the Amway trap several years ago, but I managed to finally see through the facade and abandoned the effort. When I finally called my upline and told them that I was no longer planning to work the business, no one ever informed me that I could get a refund. Imagine my surprise when I see on your site that you can, in fact, request a refund.

My story starts about several years ago when I was approached by a distributor who asked me to go to a meeting. Both my husband and myself went, but since my husband was skeptical from the start and did not wish to participate in the "Amway Adventure" (as he put it), I fell hook, line and sinker and attempted to run the business myself. I can still remember running home from my full time job only to go back out and "work the business". My upline lived so far away from me that I drove an hour there and back to "product pick-up". I had to contend with taking the orders on this night also. And this was only on Mondays!! Tuesday is when they would hold the weekly meetings. For some odd reason, my upline decided that we needed additional encouragement and support so after the meetings, everyone was expected to drive to a local restaurant where we would scarf down greasy food and sit through untold accountings of "how I got to the point where I am today and how you can do it too" speeches. They called these "night owls" and they usually lasted until around 1:00 or 1:30, sometime 2:00 in the morning. If you did not go to the night owls, then you were labeled "not a team player." Getting home at 2:00 in the morning makes for a very long day especially when you get up at 5:00 in the morning - but we were given that motivational speech about giving up now to get what you want later in life! What a bunch of bullshit!

During our weekly meetings, my upline would promote to prospects that "Amway was a business not everyone is willing to do, and that they understood this fact so were only looking for a few sharp people who want to own a business for themselves." Afterwards, when the prospect left without being excited about the business or confirming another meeting, they would be called "saps" and "losers". Additionally, they continually tried to mix the Amway business with religion, and would even frown on those who did not attend church with the rest of the "successful" associates. I started to see that if you didn't conform to their self imposed standards, then you were nothing more than business liability and were pretty much ignored or taunted.

The real truth is that Amway is full of hypocrites, but the really funny part is that they are not even aware of it. My upline was directly involved in that law suit and I become livid every time I think of the times that I was bullied into buying the motivational tapes and books. They were making a profit off of my hard work and determination only to throw it back in my face during one of those rallies where they paraded across the stage like show dogs all dressed up in their most expensive clothes and prattling on for hours about how much money they make (never any figures mentioned) and how much better their life is now since they found Amway!

I am thinking of anonymously sending the URL of this site to a number of people I know who are still in Amway. Maybe it will save one or two of them from financial ruin! Thank you so much for this informative site. I just wish the internet and this site were around when I became involved with the whole mess.

 

Sincerely,

learned the hard way.

Being an Amway distributor for 5 years educated me a lot. The first time, I was sponsored by a Diamond. Well, that is what they claimed him to be. The fact of the matter, he was an emerald and had been for several years because he lost some of his Directs, and no longer qualified for Diamond.

Lets talk about tapes. He had several tapes, for which he was the spokesperson. When asked do you receive any royalties or monies for the distribution of these tapes the answer was no. That is not a white lie, that is a lie. I was later sponsored by an Emerald. He shared all. The tape and motivational empire is huge. I think it started out with good intentions and then a few cents were added here and there. A few lifestyles started changing for the better. Then justifications were self inflicted, "you know this takes a lot of time and we should be paid for our time at least a little bit", and then "how about a little bit more", "just a little bit more", "oh why not lets just add 50 more cents". Well you know the rest of the story. Take the tape empire away and I think you will see a lot of Diamonds sitting in the seats of Yugo's. Now that is sure to go along way Hey bring your guest over and show them my Yugo.

Thanks for the note and sharing that with me.

Did you once ever report a profit on you taxes due to your Amway business?

Scott

Profit in your 1st 5 years? I never had one I was more interested in the delayed gratification plan. I figured that if you were a real team player, you expenditures on an annual basis would easily exceed 2500.00. So what if the kids can't have a Christmas for 20 years you can make it up to them after they put themselves through college.

Your site is very true and very important to read. After being in that crazy business (yep I was a strong 4,000 making a 2,000 bonus check, less the taxes, less the overhead, less the attachment to a failing system, less the expenditures to introduce it to people I ended up being generally disappointed, pissed off and in the RED!!!). I worked my ass off to see it work, but it's not a good financial decision and I paid the price.

The bright side, I started studying business small and large, got into tax laws and IRS regulations and listened to people in business and got my hand on any material relating to investment-wise investment.

Things changed now. I park my BMW next to my ex-upline directs Toyota. I leave on trips to the Cayman islands to see turtles and do some deep sea diving. I head to the Med to see Crete from the bow of the Grand Princess cruise vessel, while my upline still does product pick-up and bounces checks.

I'm glad you put up your website, it made me more aware of what goes on in that organization, it took me two years to dig myself out of that hole. They told me my upline is supposed to help, but what I saw and experienced was a lie. Simple as that. People are failing the Amway business sinking their life savings in it! Thank you for your message and telling them to stop! Think before you jump in! Geez, a 7% CD, dumping in the same investment you'd put in an Amway business, will yield $700,000 over 25 years as net side cash! With a 100% success rate!

I had to learn the hard way, and now I'm making money he proper way and having fun....While I may not be in the top "1%" of the Amway distributorships, but hey, at least it's great to see the lights 14 miles off of the western coast of Cuba at 3am while you have glass of Chivas 18! Building wealth the old fashioned way.

Hi -- I wish I had seen your site before I entered the nightmare. Amway is a lie. They use pressure and brainwashing. I "joined" June of this year, and what a load of crap!!!!!!!!!! The products aren't what they are made out to be and the lies they tell you. My upline said God had led them to Amway in order to help people. My final straw was a rally in North Carolina this September. I could not believe what I saw. Propaganda at its best. I was sitting there amazed at how stupid these people were and not understanding why they couldn't see what was really going on. Now I have a better understanding of Hitler's Influence over Germany in the 40's . It was so clear, so unbelievably clear. In my few months I was shown how to lie (cold contact) at a mall, also using a phone book to call people and make up some lie so I could tell them about the great business opportunity by saying so and so gave me their name. Then I was invited to go to the local fair just for the sake of cold contacting. Give me a break, if their "business" were so great they would not need such measures. I didn't go. The CON MAN who invented AMWAY is laughing all the way to the bank. I am going to stop now because I could tell you SO much more. But after browsing your site, you have hit the mark dead center. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK, and hopefully others won't be tricked into this lie.

Hi Scott -- To answer your questions:

How much money did I throw away in Amway? It was right around $500.00, not including the MCI switch, or the computer equipment of $1400.00 needed so I could use Quixtar. I never signed up for the regular tapes, books or videos, though I was getting pressure to do so. The monthly seminars, the advance cost of $12.00 or $15.00 at the door, is printed on your ticket as a donation, that's a laugh. They call these seminars continuing education, in what? How To Con People. Then of course, there were your $6.00 special speaker get togethers and let us not forget the big $105.00 week end ones.

How much did I receive? I received one check for $9.00.

Quixtar? What lies I was told concerning that. I was told if a company was a partner store, that no one could shop anywhere else on the web at that store except by going through Quixtar. Office Max is a partner store, and you can go directly to their site and shop without using Quixtar. Quixtar was invented because to many people were wise to the name Amway.

In response to upline, I really don't know way up because when their names were told to me I didn't really care. Their very names were mentioned with such reverence, this was a red flag to me. And as far as crossline or downline I was told I shouldn't have contact with them only upline, this caused another red flag. I am planning to send your site to what upline I know. It won't do any good, because they all are total AMWAY ZOMBIES. What really had the red flags flying were when they told me how I should live my life, what I should read, what I should listen to, what I should spend my money on, that I should always consult with my upline before spending money on anything not AMWAY, how I should dress, on and on. No...no..no....no, no one tells me what I should think or do. Suggest maybe but not tell me.

The sad part is, this has destroyed a 28 year friendship. I feel deceived and used by someone who calls themselves my friend. I'm sorry, I don't call that friendship.

I just thank God, that he blessed me with a mind of my own. I have never been a member of the status quo.

Scott,

I recently got prospected, by a gentlemen, for the new e-commerce side of the Amway corp. This got me doing some research on the business, and I ran across your site. Reading all these stories from Emeralds really opened my eyes. Here is my own and my family's story.

My parents were sponsored into the business in 1979.They went Direct in 1 year and had a very tight group of distributors (who were mainly friends and family) I was 12 years old at the time and remember that time to be a wonderful experience. I was exposed to some great people at an early age, and it had a great impact on me. There were always groups of people at the house for board practice and leadership training. It was more of a party atmosphere than a business gathering. Well, about a year and 6 months passed and my parents were well on their way to becoming qualified Pearls. All this was done without any support(as the closest upline who was doing anything lived in Harrisburg PA) His name is Fred Harteis, Who was a duoble diamond at the time. Living 4 hours away, he would occasionally talk to my dad on the phone. Well, one day my father was injured in an accident and was out of commission for close to a year. When he went upline for help, they basically told him that it was not worth the time to come down into the group. You see, my dad was considered a rebel because he didn't charge his people for the tapes if they couldn't afford them, he didn't make them spend their last dollars on rallies and seminars. He built the business based on integrity and his loyalty to his close friends and family. Well, needless to say, after about a year, the distrbutorship fell apart. When I told my dad about the recent exposure to the business again , he warned me of all the "inside " stuff. That's when he sat me down and told me the whole story. I was shocked. Well I guess that's about it. I just wanted to vent. And it seems that the income from tapes, books and seminar and rallies goes back a long time.

God help all the new distributors.

Hi Scott!

 

I'd like to say that you have created an absolutely great Website sir! Keep it up. I support it all the way!

I occasionally trawl the net for any stuff on Amway. Why? Because I used to be an UK Amway distributor and I am casually interested in developments. I got as far as 18% after 1 year in the business and was considered to be one of the most promising distributors in our group. I liked the realization of unrestricted wealth - the harder you work, the more money you made and with the advantages of multiplying your effort. However, I was very close to our upline Emerald and began to realize the deception involved i.e. that they were not earning as much as they were saying, the "secret business within a business" - i.e. tools and functions. I already began to realize the high operating costs of "running an Amway distributorship" and the high dropout rate of distributors. There was a lot of pressure from upline with regards to functions and tools. Basically, if you weren't in the program you were frowned upon to some degree or another.

Most of the examples you describe are so true to the way the business is run that I shall not dwell on my personal experience of this. They are all so very, very true.

I was (and still am) very ambitious, more so than most of the people present in our group, but found it frustratingly hard to make any reasonable profits, despite the big sell.

At the end of the day, business is business. You are either good at it or not. You either work hard and smart or you don't. Amway is a people business. But so is every other business!

A few succeed, most don't. But I found the plan to be preying on people's false hopes for others to make a profit. As you say, no mention was made of investment costs. People that came from a business background and inquired about the business planned were fobbed of with prepared upline statements to cover the true business cost. The fact that people were scorned for not making every effort in finding cash for functions got way out of line.

At the end of the day every business relies on good sound market research, and study into competitor strengths and players, cash flows, hard work and determination and reviews at every stage to ensure things are on track. The Amway plan, as stated by distributors, is based on blind belief and deceit - an almost religious belligerence of the true business facts that most normal people would normally try to discover when starting their own ventures.

On the plus side, I have no bad feelings about the Amway Corporation that do supply great quality products. I have little respect for the doctrines passed down to unsuspecting distributors, who churn out the same belligerent messages to the unfortunate masses, and to these distributors own discredit, have not checked the facts for themselves. What kind of business ethics are these people trying to teach?

And to rebuke folk that do not sign on to the "Amway" plan? Call them losers? Terminate all contact? Sheer madness and insensitivity.

One of the good things to have come out of this experience was the exposure to all the great books on personal development (not necessarily the tapes mind you). These have been invaluable for my own, and others, personal development. And yet you can get these from your local library rather than joining Amway.

And yet I have no regrets. Only another chapter of learning from my life.

If you want to know where I am now, I have my own business. I have learnt from my own experience of failures, learnt from the failures of others and I am enjoying my success by running my own Software Development company. I have "followed my dreams" and enjoyed the success of my own labors by taking the risks and challenges that occur in every business. I look at my exposure to Amway as an interesting lesson in not to be blind to a strangers hyperactive rantings without checking a real business thoroughly.

To anyone reading this I urge the following:-

Amway does work....but so does anyone that is willing to work and study the market for their own business. Not everyone is going to make the money that you see in "Profiles of Success". Don't be fooled by the apparent "get rich quick" type of things that your upline say with apparent ease and automation. I have met several wealthy Amway distributors. But I believe these people would do well in any business venture they take. Whether they learn this from the books or experience or ingenuity - that's your call.

"It's not the vehicle, but the person". True. Amway is still sold as a vehicle for anyone to become rich. They do not stress the sheer amount of hard work, the outrageous "tools scandal", the unnecessary "you MUST attend functions or fail" psychology, the snubbing of non-Amway folks.

Amway is not THE only way to become wealthy.

Be warned AND DO YOUR HOMEWORK! Don't be deceived. Don't listen to your upline and DON'T loose your friends. Just because they don't see, or don't want to participate in the business doesn't mean you should not share the wonderful experience of friends. If you want to make a "cold contact", don't just forget about them if they say no about the plan! You should be making friends all along the way. Imagine how they feel! Someone takes the time to talk to them and then springs the plan on them and then disappears just as quick. What on earth is that all about?!?!?!? That's cheap and false.

Think very carefully what you want to do.

Amway is a vehicle. But just a vehicle. OK? ThinK about what you want to do.

[I hope you will print this email on your site. I have tried to convey the fact that while I do not agree that ALL Amway is bad, it is not the only business to make success. Some groups are bad. Many are very, very bad! But some people are trying to make it work.

But I believe in what you are saying Scott, and that is the fact that many people are being deceived and THAT MUST BE STOPPED!!! I am no longer, nor will be, an Amway distributor or a Quixtar IBO etc]

I just recently got involved, went to a meeting and immediately saw the sheep being led to the slaughter. Then I happened upon this gem of a site. I will be forwarding your Web-site to everyone I have introduced to this. What a shame, I really thought this was going to be an interesting avenue to peruse. I got myself excited, along with some of my technoid friends.

The distributor who got me involved in Amway/Quixtar pretty much lied to me like you said on your web site.

He told me that Microsoft had invested in Quixtar. Now I know that that is a lie. He also told me "if you are going to be in this business, then there is no question about it, you are going to buy the tapes and videos."

I'm a 20 year old student who attends Rowan University and I already have an AS in Accounting. I had a gut feeling that this was not a great investment of my time or money.

The distributor wouldn't answer any of my detailed business questions because he knew he was had.

I'm going to get a refund on my kit and I'm telling my sister ASAP not to get involved.

I'm also reporting this distributor to AMWAY about his business ethics .

Thank you,

shaun

Hi, I find the information you have provided is very interesting I am a current Amway Distributor who started off in the "BIG BUSINESS" plan with my husband doing the seminars, showing the plan, shaking hands with Distributors who were Diamonds, Emeralds, and trying to build our business. We were not successful and felt that our up-line at that time just thought of us as another "DISTRIBUTOR COUNT" in their downline. So we quit our distributorship with that group however I really liked using the Amway home products like SA8, Dish Drops, Super Concentrate Supplies, and some other products. We re-signed with a friend and became apart of their downline but we are strictly small business and we are very happy just buying for ourselves. I am not done reading all of the material presented in this website when we are through we will send you another message. So far in our opinion you are very accurate on how we feel about what really happens when you try and build a distribution business in Amway.

Scott,

At the risk of sounding uneducated, I wish to thank you with all sincerity for your Amway White Lies web site! An atty. friend of mine forwarded the link this morning, and I've had a captivating read, despite a busy day scheduled!

My brief story: After dodging this sincere Amway guy for 3+ years, I finally broke down and spent the $50 or so to be an 'IBO' w/Amway. My though was, (tech-savvy as I am) that I could make a killing sending people to this new awesome Quixtar thingy that they were doing...

Well, needless to say, I'm glad I've only invested $50 and around 10 hrs. total time!!!

Thanks again, really.

Mark

I know what I know about amway/quixtar becuase I was in it for two years and worked it hard. I got big time recognition. I'm even mentioned on a tape (EC-5) that was made at a "Go Diamond" function.
In my opinion, amway/quixtar is not a good investment. I feel that you can make more money delievering pizza's one night a week than working quixtar five nights a week.
That's my opinion.
My advice to you is work it hard. Check the results though. They tell ya not to, but after six months check the results and see if you're better off with or without it.

I don't know how much time is needed to make a profit, because I never made one. I worked it about 5-10 hrs a week for two years. About one week out of the month required around 15-30 hrs of time.
I have personally show it to over 100 people. I have sponsored four. Not a single one ever sponsored anyone else.
In the cincinnati "freedom" team there were around 500-700 people. I only knew of 30 who were making a profit. They all had at least 50 people in their groups.

You just have to ask yourself. I am I getting in to this because I think the products are good and will sell very well, or is my main goal to get six other people in so I can make money?

Quixtar is a cultish, scamming, pyramid scheme. Don't waste your time on it.

If you don't believe me, look up +amway +untold +truth on altavista.com

I know what the ambots are saying. Quixtar isn't amway. No it isn't, but it is run by the same people with the same strategies and tactics. The upline "leadership" hasn't changed.

It has been three days since I found your link on deja.com. I go there after an unsuccessful attempt at getting into the new quixtar site. Sometimes some of it is there, sometimes nothing. Just finished reading your site thru,and I am glad to find something in print that I have been suspicious of since the Forth of July.

Here's my story ,if you want to hear it.

I saw the plan on June 22 '99 at my brother-inlaw's house. He'd just signed on three days earlier. I had to see it twice, asking more questions the second time. My wife and I signed on two days later, and were talked into going to Knoxville, Tenn. over the Forth of July to see Jim & Donna Storm at a Click-Start Rally.My main reason for going was that we were promised that more information about Quixtar would be released.

I did not miss a single conference, not a single minute! It was all interesting, but no new information on Quixtar. Sunday, we packed up to go home (11 hours away). Our upline came to find us. It seamed that Sunday's closed meeting was being open to all distributors. We didn't go to that one because of the long trip home.

After that, I went to some open meetings with upline. I hoped new information would come up. (You know none ever does.)

I was told not to bother reading the Amway Business Comp. because it was obsolete and didn't apply to Quixtar. I had to spend all my time growing the business before 9/1/99 got here. My questions and inquiries went unanswered. Because of this disinterest in my questions and what appeared as lying to me and my prospects, I've had trouble growing.

The latest lie concerns Quixtar. Upline says they can get in and look around. Well, I can't . They say the internet is overloaded, and they are getting in through with webTV. You may ask how I can make such a statement.

MOST OF MY UPLINE DOES NOT KNOW A THING ABOUT COMPUTERS OR THE WEB!!!!!! I have five years experience in computers and the web. I am no expert, but I know that the problem is in the server at Quixtar. That is what the error messages tell me!

Sorry for being so long winded, but I needed to get that out. No one listens above me. You have a GREAT site, keep it up. It has answered all my questions and suspicions, and then more!

If I resign, it will be from all the lies from upline and the promise of Quixtar.

My wife and I started our Amway business on a Saturday Morning. For the next 6 years, We ate, slept and drank Amway. If we didn't get where we wanted to be, why, it was because we just didn't give enough. I missed family functions to attend Rallies, and my boys spent the first few years of their lives wondering where there Daddy was. Now that we are Amway free, My upline Diamond won't return my calls. I wonder why.

I'm ashamed to say that I'm one of those who got to 2500PV by going $20,000 in debt over 3 years showing the plan, listening to tapes, reading books, going to functions, etc. until I was literally in the hospital emergency room with chest pains. Thank goodness I finally woke up. You have a great web page. Keep up the good work.

Scott,

You certainly pulled a lot of skeletons out of the closet.

I have been a distributor for 5 years now, and I have a lot of mixed feelings about the business.

I was a little angered by the presentation of your site, in which you treat all aspects of Amway businesses (i.e. the Amway sales and marketing plan and the "system") as one entity. After mulling this over, though, I realized that this is symptomatic of how the business (at least by Yager, et. al.) is promoted to distributors. My own experiences have reinforced this feeling.

Before I briefly relate how I feel, I would like to thank you for the link to the Jeff Probant site. We share the same line of sponsorship (Stewart/Rummel/Maxwell) and I have heard him in person and met him personally after an open meeting here in OKC. I was delighted to read his site, as I share many of his frustrations with "the system". I only wish I could respond to him personally regarding many of these issues.

The Probant site was very enlightening in its detail of the huge amount of money, made by directs and above, from the sale of tools. I had always wondered why there were special "closed-door" meetings that were only for 4000+ or 7500+ distributors during major functions. I had also wondered why "open" meetings cost more to attend when Diamonds showed the plan. Unfortunately, my suspicions were confirmed. And, it doesn't take a genius to figure that tapes with $0 studio production costs (they are lifted from the PA systems at major functions) and probably only $1 to $2 in duplication costs could generate a HUGE profit when they are sold by the tens of thousands at $6 each. I could go on, but I know I'm preaching to the choir here.

I share your belief that motivational tools are necessary to engage people in the process of thinking on a larger scale. I have been upset for years that our schools and colleges promote the "get a good education so you can get a good job" mentality instead of teaching students the fundamentals of good money management, investment, and entrepreneurial capitalism. Reading Carnegie, Covey, etc. have helped me tremendously. But I think that "ramming them down people's throats", so to speak, is wrong, particularly in the case on major functions, which now cost $400 to $500 per person.

I enjoyed the major functions, and in actuality, for a professional seminar, the cost is reasonable. As an environmental professional, I have attended environmental and industrial hygiene seminars and conventions that cost two to three times the price of an Amway function, and did not include hotel or meals. But the out of pocket expense is heavy on a family that does not earn enough in PV bonuses to cover the costs.

I suppose the real eye opener was the fact that my upline basically stopped communicating with me when my attendance at major functions and consumption of tapes and books ended a couple of years ago. Although I continue to purchase products regularly (this is out of loyalty to products that I find superior in quality) I have not heard from my upline in over two years, which is how long it's been since I attended a major function or purchased a tape or book. Incidentally, over the years I have seen my immediate line of sponsorship dwindle from six deep between myself and my DD to no one. My DD is now my immediate upline.

I guess my question for you is whether or not a good source of income can be derived from the Amway business plan, apart from the Yager "system", and whether or not you ever liked the Amway products. I don't believe that I have ever heard of a single complaint about "Amway" that wasn't REALLY about the "system" or bothersome people in the sponsorship upline. It seems that Amway's plan works, if you don't include the great cost of buying every "optional" tape and book and attending every seminar and rally. And, I prefer many of the Amway products over brands that I used to buy in the stores.

It is my feeling that the reason that so many drop out of the business is "the system." I am upset at the fact that tools are always presented as optional, but at the same time you are constantly badgered into believing that if you don't spend a fortune on tools, you'll never be successful. Being snubbed by my upline, ostensibly for not participating in the "system" (even though I continue to buy $50 to $100 worth of products each month) has not improved my attitude, either.

I forgot to mention that I am in total agreement with you regarding "sales and marketing plan" vs. "business plan". I am in the process of creating an Internet-based start-up company (not an MLM!) and I have spent MANY of hours of my time and hundreds of dollars for legal and financial advice developing a realistic plan involving marketing, sales, expenses, cashflow, etc. Potential Amway distributors should be much more aware of what is actually involved in running a business.

Anyone who starts a business should know that there will always be "Cost of Doing Business" associated with it. I am not completely against tapes or books or seminars, but the most sensible (and ethical) approach to these tools should be to balance the cost and/or usage of the tools with the actual income from the business. Or, as Jeff Probant advocates, give PV and BV to the tools and allow Amway to distribute them, so everyone shares in the revenue they generate. (It is also disturbing that so many of the tools include items like product lists and order forms that are completely unnecessary, since they are almost exact copies of Amway materials.)

I also belive that distributors should be made aware of the amount of money that DD's and above are now making from the tools. I was disappointed when I finally realized that a major portion of their "dream lifestyle" income is derived from tools. When I was new in the business, I questioned why I had to spend $30 - $40 per month on items with 0 PV and 0 BV. I was given the typical "how much would you have to pay to consult with Bill Gates or Sam Walton every week" argument and told that the cost was a bargain compared to the value of the knowledge I gained. Sure, the cost of tapes is still below the cost of music cassettes, but when I pay $9.99 for a tape from the record store, I KNOW the money is going in someone else's pocket. I feel it is deception to constantly advocate a profit-sharing-for-all system (the Amway Sales and Marketing Plan) while using that chance to promote the sale of items that involve profit sharing for only a chosen few. Oh, and did I mention that NO ONE from the local record store made me feel guilty for not buying 8 tapes a month...

On the other hand, I have no problem with tax write-offs associated by some with the Amway business. I simply do not believe that they are any more excessive that the tax write-offs and creative accounting practiced by thousands of companies, and the Federal Government, every year (the Feds could give lessons in creative accounting that would baffle any CPA). Perhaps those angered by the write-offs that some Amway distributors take should look at the general state of tax laws and "corporate welfare" programs that exists today. But I hope that there are not as many people (as you claim) who are duped into the "let's spend all we want and deduct it from our taxes" notion without realizing that they are SPENDING money in order to get those write-offs.

Okay, I think I'm through now. As you can see, I feel strongly about this subject. I have never met a finer group of people, overall, than those I met through this business. I really like many of the Amway products. I am disturbed, though, at the "sheep" mentality that is so abundant in upline-downline dealings. I have never felt comfortable aggressively promoting the Yager system when I know that it is strictly an option. I never presented the business as a get rich quick scheme, because I knew it wasn't. I never presented the business as a scheme to save a huge amount of money, because I knew it wasn't. What I always presented was a way to get superior products at a price competitive with most retail outlets, and have a return on your investment in the form of a monthly rebate check.

Just wanted to say thanks for the information. My husband and I are technically still distributors but that will change this September when the renewal is up. We went through it all, tapes, books, functions, late night dinners with upline, traveling at 3am home from no shows (current news reports are now telling us that driving while drowsy is just as dangerous as driving while intoxicated. Our upline encouraged us many, many times to be out on the roads while going on literally no sleep), and traveling hundreds of miles to rallies. I'm embarrassed to say that we still have a garage full of "tools" that my husband wants to burn. I can't even imagine what our family and friends think of us. Our main objective when we got into the business was to get me out of work so we could start a family and I could be a stay at home mom. What a joke! If only we had kept doing what we were doing previous to the business, I would have worked myself out of work two years ago. This business not only caused my husband and I undue stress due to the fact that we were getting deeper and deeper into debt, but it also almost cost us our marriage. I know that the distributors that are still in the "brainwashed" stage won't open their eyes to this right away. You probably get an earfull of the standard AMAQUOTES, but those of us who "get" what this "business" is really all about have and will benefit greatly from the true information you have posted at your site. Everything I have come across has been true. From the inflated price of the products to the profits made from the tools. I can't tell you how many times I have heard from stage, from upline that we loved and respected, that there was no money to be made from the selling of tools. I believe that's what bothers me the most: to be lied to. Over and over and over again. Eventually everyone "gets" it. Just takes some of us longer than others, especially when you want so badly to believe. All I can tell you is that since July when we essentially "quit", my husband and I have been so much happier. We have time to spend together doing things WE want to do. I'm retired from my job and we're starting a family. Best of all, my husband's stomach doesn't turn to knots when he meets someone new because now he can concentrate on a new friendship instead of thinking "I have to prospect t his guy or my upline will make me feel like garbage". It's just a lot less stressful around here. And you know what? Our dreams really are coming true and we didn't need Amway to make that happen. We found that if we work hard for ourselves and not our upline, we're a lot more successful and a whole lot happier. Thanks for letting me bend your ear, but mostly thanks for having the integrity to post the truth. I really believe you're helping a lot of people, even if at first they don't want it. Everyone needs to know what's really going on. You're doing a most excellent job!!

Thanks!

Scott,

After reading your web site, I don't know whether to laugh or cry! I've been into Amway for less than a month. I haven't bought any products or anything else, but the kit. Quite frankly, I never cared about Amway one way or other; all I knew going into this is that Amway has a reputation for overzealous housewives trying to get you to buy their products. But, the one reason why I bought into the business was Quixtar. As soon as the words "e-commerce" came out of my sponsor's mouth, I was pretty much hooked. I did do some research (as little as it was) about Quixtar. There were several news articles about the start-up company (fronted by Amway, of course) that were positive, but now that I look at it from another perspective, there wasn't much substance. I know that there is money to be made in an Internet business because I've purchased several items over the web. Instead of just giving that money to Amazon.com, IQVC and others, I can make money in return! But now I am extremely leery about getting (further) involved with Amway at all.

From the beginning I told my sponsor upfront that I don't want to push products -- I am not a salesperson and I don't want to be one. He told me that you don't really have to "sell" the products, they "sell" themselves. He encouraged me to buy products for myself and offer the plan to people. At this point, I don't feel comfortable doing either. Going into this I wanted to make a substantial income, now I'm wondering if I will be able make a small residual income. BTW, I am going to a Amway meeting soon with my sponsor and "diamond" and I'm going to drop a bombshell on them with the questions and comments that you suggested I should ask. I want to hear their responses -- particularly about Quixtar. If they can't back up their claims with written proof, I'm outta there!

Again, thank you for this enlightenment! Your web site is very informative and highly credible because you're not a so-called "bitter" ex-Amway distributor, but a former prospect, who did substantial research and planning before jumping into a business venture. One last ramble: Have you ever noticed at most of these MLM or pyramid type meeting/rallies, they always have speaker who "quit" their regular full-time jobs as wealthy doctors, lawyers, bankers, etc. to do (insert "business opportunity" here) full time? Now instead of making $90,000 or so, now they are making $200,000 or more. It just occurred to me that they never have a person who "quit" their $30,000 or under job, who now makes $200,000. Makes you wonder. . .?

Sincerely,
Eyes Wide Open

Hey Scott...great website. I was a three-month distributor (or IBO as we now say) who was going gangbusters-go-getter, Dino, sponsored five in my first month, etc. I was doing pretty well at silencing my inner warning voices until I came across your site. Well, I haven't confirmed all aspects of your rebuttal, but once I did my own price survey, that was it. Stick a fork in me, I'm done. It all just seems to unravel piece after piece now.

What I could really use at this point is any means of verification for some of the other numbers; specifically the Amway Corp. North American sales for 1998, and the breakdown of tools money for the high-level distributors. I have the ears of some of my upline, but verification would help. Additionally, do we know that you are not the hireling of P&G or another competitor? Having a credible answer to this question would really help me to spread what I consider to be the logical business truth you propose.

Assuming you and your information are all they seem to be, I thank you for saving my financial butt, and possibly my soul! A timely reply would be greatly appreciated.

I have been reading and re-reading and printing out your site for a few days now. I am a current distributor, although not "plugged-in", at the moment. I also am a lover of logic and reason. And as I read your site, I know in my heart that the majority of your points are completely valid, and are aspects that have brought me much frustration. I am in the WWDB organization which is to date the most successful organization out there as far as growth, profitability, and low attrition percentage I understand. Which doesn't mean much necessarily besides that they are master motivators and are able to attract rather successful businessmen to their fold. My question for you is this. There is not much we can do about the cost of the products without the support of Amway across the board cutting prices, which makes good economic sense by being able to move more product to distributor and customer alike, but is highly doubtful any time soon. But if an organization or diamondship or multiple diamondships were to either 1) lower the outrageous price for tools, or 2) actually create a fair bonus structure all the way down to the 3% level on the sale of tools, don't you think it would do wonders for the profitability and viability of the average distributor! For it seems to me that the key to growing as a business and an organization is to lower the drop-out rate! Meaning lowering the price of the products, requiring retailing of products as does almost every other MLM from the start in order to ensure profitability, and then fairly sharing the profit of tools. By doing those few things, the beginning distributor under direct will make more money at everylevel, be able to pay for his personal tools with profit from retailing both products and tools, and thereby lower the drop out rate and increase the success rate and once and for all make this business a viable option to create true, honest, business success. Do agree or have any suggestions on how you would change the current business model being used to make this the business opportunity that I believe it is not yet, but could be! Thanks for your insight and dedication to truth and fairness by making important information available to all.

You have done an unbelievable job of succinctly summarizing the biggest problems with "the business". I am a direct living this nightmare. I think the internet, and sites like yours, are getting the truth out as evidenced by Amway's 20% sales/sponsoring decrease. You need to update tape prices as they have gone up another dollar! I think one the biggest concepts that people fail to grasp is that Amway is a good company, but the income from an Amway business is not worth the work without the income from the "system". Best wishes.

Scott,

Just wanted to drop you a line to say good job on your site. As a former AMWAY distributor from the INTERNATIONAL LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT ( ILD) clan. It is nice to know that there are people like you who are willing to spread and share the truth. .Although there is not much information on the ILD clan, one can guess that they operate the same way as their parent AMO group which was World Wide Dreambuilders, prior to breaking off about 4 years ago. ILD's leader is Jack Daughrey who came from the Puryear, Britt and Yearger lineage.

As we all know the Truth Shall set you Free.... but one must accept and allow the truth to set them free of this business. Because once the "system" has gotten a hold of your mind and paralyze and clouds your mental faculties, it is not such a clear cut break for the door. Please inform your readers to never surrender their minds or wills to any AMO in Amway. It is one of their core 8 steps , you must be willing to be teachable and trainable and this translates to : We want you to be a nonthinking carbonic entity thus to better manipulate your life for our benefit. But I am sure you know all this .

PEOPLE WHO QUIT AMWAY ARE NOT LOSERS they are actually the SMART ones to GET OUT, before the" financial cleansing" drives them out of home and their life... I liken it to what is happening to KOSOVO, except the system is more Suave... Stealing and lying are all the same regardless of what uniform they put on.

Thanks for your time and allowing me a moment of "ventilation"... Keep up the good work...

Very interesting site. I've spend 15 years, trying to make it work right and I'm not sure it will for most people. I am still a product user and still have some big pin friends, but the system uses too many people that will never ever be able to have the personal growth to run a motivational organization. You can be sucked along with the flow if you have a really hot growing upline but belief over facts is dangerous for a lot of people. It's not at all hard to see the religous similarites. It's hope not soap we say, and people are begging for hope! I had a lot of wonderful experiences, in a lot of wonderful places, but was it worth the agony of bankruptcy. my friend and emerald is now a multi millionaire, but financial help is not in the rules! It's okay, he earned it, but I did help. And, I do know how I would feel if I ever come into really big money. aany way some praise and some criticism, its life and I grew.

Scott:

I just found your site today 5-19-99. I read through the whole site and to be quite frank, I found your claims and statistics and comments to be very accurate and as honest as a "negative site" could be. I found your site to be non-threatning in any manner. In fact, it was quite informative. You really seem to know the in's-and-out's of this business.I am assuming that you have a great deal of business background and made an intelligent business decision. I have to agree with you on all points, I came to the same conclusions and feel the same way about cost verse value and training/motivation verse rate of return. Now I can see the Amway Opportunity a truly unique business, but business not as usual. Please bare with me a moment, I tend to see this venture as a project, a project with no end or limit. Pure in purpose, pure in motive. Now with all the motivation and drive in the world, without the proper training I feel, (like you said, you can never generate enough volume from buying from yourself). Each new business owner must take ownership of his/her business and operate as a project. In my experience, I operate with a level of urgency when I have a project to complete. But buying soap and gum from your own will never make anyone a financial success. Cost to Earning Ratio of $65.00 per business/project is not going to make anyone rich either. Paul Pilzer commented that Sam Walton's key to success was not in opening more stores, even though he did, but making sure that each store was profitable. He increased sale per square foot from $100.00 to $300.00 in a very short time span making Sam the richest man in the world in the late 60"s.

Therefore, if I were to take on an Amway project for ME.INC, I have to accept the responsibility creating my project and creating retail sales, as well as personal use. And by duplicating my project or opening new stores, (sponsoring others) by once again taking the responsibility to make sure these stores are profitable as well. I believe you said (paraphrased by me) there would be no reason to be in business if you were operating at a lose or low rate of return. I believe I couldn't consider this venture successful unless all businesses were profitable, because these businesses/projects are people. And people have dreams and hope of financial success just like me. But I forgot one thing, I can not calculate the ambition levels of a particular individual. People may say they want the big business model, but can't back it up with action. How does all this sound? I like the business but in my minds eye it seems no matter what motivation organizational group I choose to be involved with, the business it truly up to me and my effort.

keep up the good work.

Hi,

 

I was wondering if you have any information about the class action lawsuit against Yeager's Org. or Amway?

Is it still pending.....what are the details....who can get involved....I spent a couple of years as a distributor.....and am still trying to dig out of a financial mess because of what are now clearly stupid decisions due to my blind loyalty (upline induced ignorance).

We brushed up against DD but only have a couple of 4000 pins a bottle of Glister mouthwash, about $15,000 of debt and serious anger to show for it (I threw the huge pile of tapes and tools out). I would love to recoup some of the money that I am now trying to pay at about 20%interest.

Thanks,

MY WIFE HAS BEEN INVOLVED FOR TWO YEARS, SO THE ONLY BENEFIT WE GET IS THE TAX WRITEOFF FROM OUR LOSSES BUT MY CPA SAYS WE CAN NO LONGER DO THAT. ALSO, I DO NOT AGEE THAT THE DISTRIBUTORS SHOULD PAY THOSE OUTRAGIOUS PRICES FOR THE TAPES SICE THEY ARE FEEL GOOD ITEMS AND TEACH NOTHING ABOUT BUSINESS AND SALES. I AM A SALESMAN OF 25 YEARS AND HAVE CHALLENGED MANY ASPECTS OF AMWAY BUT THE BRAINWASHING THEY GET IS GOOD, AND NOBODY SEEMS TOO INTERESTED IN THE FACTS. MY WIFE MEANS WELL AND I NEED TO CONVICE HER THAT SHE IS WASTING HER TIME WHILE AT THE NSAME TIME NOT JEOPARDIZING OUR RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU CAN GIVE ANY ADVICE (AND I WILL READ YOUR DATA) PLEASE ADVISE

Scott

Your numbers are right! How do I know ???

Because I tried being an Amway distributor TWICE. And each time, I lost a lot of money. Of course, my "upline" sponsor would just tell me that I had to TRY HARDER !!! Get more people to come to the "pull down" meetings, the weekly La-La-Palooza (my term) motivational sessions, and the monthly Amway distributor sales meetings. I did all that and . . . I lost even more money. Why ??? I gave up after about 2 years. And was my sponsor mad at me! Why ??? Didn't "I" have the right to decide that I didn't want to "pay" him to get rich while "I" was losing money ??? To make a long story short, Amway was a VERY bad business to be in. The funny thing is that my sponsor has since quit the Amway business (Network 21). Poor guy. I feel sorry for him.

Hello Scott.

I must say your site contains much valuable, factual information. It's excellent to see sites like yours helping people make smart choices regarding Amway.

I use to be in Amway (still am technically). I have been building my business for 4 years solid, and managed to collect close to $70K of debt ($15K for a car which doesn't really count, but started at 0K debt.) I was at every function, spend thousands on tapes, lost products, "night owl" dinners, books, functions, etc. I've done many hundreds of meetings, and am 22, and now officially bankrupt! If anyone wonders how someone can lose this much money, I can easily show them how!

I'll be honest, the only way I realized the truth about the Amway business was due to my shady upline, D. W. (Bill Britt's organization). He has been in for about 13 years (only a direct, with no real qualified directs). If it was not for me finding out he was charged with theft (at his work which was Canada Post, which he was in court for), and him telling me I was destined for "hell" due to my non Christian religion, I would be out there right now. One thing that I came across was on Sunday Morning religious sessions, where there was a collection plate going around. It seemed that the money was counted and spit between the diamonds (in proportional amounts according to #'s at the function) Have you encountered this? I could be mistaken but it seemed as if each diamond kept the money. When D. W. (upline, who does security), was asked about this he just replied don't worry about it. Humm.

I wish I would listen to people like you earlier in life! Right now I'm in the process of putting my life together, and have to undo many of the "success principles" I have learned in the Amway Business. But I have gained many soft skills, as well as perfected ability to B.S.

Scott,

Great site. Meshes well with the one from the active Emerald distributor-- he and his wife are to be greatly admired.

While in Germany in the early 90's as a young twenty-something, I became a dreamer and a "believer" and spent too much of my time and money being "totally committed"...I should have been drinking a lot more beer, dating a lot more women, and investing that tape and function money :)

At the time, I was in the unique position to hob-nob with some of the biggies in the business: Jerry Meadows, Ron Puryear, Bill Britt, and others. After a while, I realized that the pure, nice, "Christian" rhetoric about freedom hid a seamy underbelly of old-fashioned greed , misrepresentation, mind-control, ultra-rightist religious dogmatism, and hucksterism.

I consider the experience valuable if only for the exposure to the "dark side" I received. Now, in fact, I am financially secure (without AMWAY), happily married, and very satisfied with my J.O.B. and where I'm going in life. In fact, I have a life. AMWAY people from Diamond on down should be so lucky...

Keep up the good work.

 

I came across your site quite by accident and have been reading it and all the hyperlinked sites I can today. I was recruited last winter by a very bright professional woman whom I did not know previously but who belonged to my (prestigious, Ivy) college alumni association. The basic ideas seemed logical but what appealed most of course was the Internet plan. From what I knew, Amway was a reputable company, so I reasoned that this was not some fly-by-night Ponzi scheme, and although I didn't much care for the multilevel marketing aspect, it seemed a reasonable model to apply to e-commerce. (There is an article in the April issue of "Wired" magazine that makes a similar point). I recently sponsored two professional people and have two more enthused about the possibilities of the venture--I am actually supposed to take one to an "open" meeting in a few days and am trying to figure out how to get out of this quagmire. Are you aware of a publication called Network Marketing lifestyles--the address is nmlifestyle(s).com (or something like that). The June issue claims that Microsoft is going to be Quixtar's major business partner. Is this a legitimate publication or is it another Amway distributors' vehicle like InterNet Services (which runs my "upline")? (I have only seen the website, not a hard copy). I am also "preregistered" at www.thefutureofbusiness.com (an InterNet Services site) which contains a lot of good information on e-commerce but looks as if it should make the tapes and seminars superfluous. (Of course, someone is still going to be making money because they are going to charge some sort of monthly fee when they move out of their "prelaunch" phase). I was aware that the Amway prices seemed high but figured I just hadn't found the right products for my household (or didn't appreciate the concentration or high quality enough!) I have an embarrassing number of tapes, although my sponsor has loaned me more than I have actually purchased. (I got a few of the recommended books from amazon). You have put together a very informative site--I just wish I'd researched this more thoroughly before I was dazzled by the idea of residual income from the internet!

Hi Scott.

Just want to let you know I've been to your site several times and I think it's great. I was a distributor last year until I saw that I was headed off a financial cliff if I continued to participate in the "system". The longer I have been out, the madder I get about how I was lied to, manipulated and ripped off by my sponsor and upline! People deserve to know what they're getting into when they consider the promises made by Amway distributors when trying to sign them up. I may still have joined just to see for myself, but I sure wouldn't have stuck around as long as I did or lost the money I had had I access to the information on yours and other sites like it.

Scott.

Thank you for the great information. I just recently became a distributor, and have already talked to several co-workers about the plan. I remember many years ago of being approached by an Amway person and was very upset by the tactics that were used in selling the plan. At that time I did not give in. Now it is different for me. I know some people that are actually in it, and have talked to someone that knew someone that is in Amway. I have been very up front with the people I have talked to and have told them its Amway. Amazing that they are still interested in the plan. As for the prices, you are right, some are pricy and I plan on shopping Wal-Mart and K-mart if its more economical.

Thank you again for all the insight. I agree that people don't research what they feel is a good idea, but then I also think more people have been taken by a car salesman more than Amway but we keep buying cars.

I have just been reintroduced to the Amway business as Quixstar the Amway online E-commerce website coming 9.1.99 I was a failure in Amway 23 years ago because of my growing alcoholism problem, which certainly wasn't an tool for success in any endeavor let alone an Amway beginning.

I always blamed myself for "being a quitter", never the Amway marketing plan, never my Sponsor or up-lines. "Quitters never win, and Winners never quit!!" Yet there times late at night when I could not get to sleep thinking the unthinkable: "something stinks here and it ain't me!" I would argue with my self the pros & cons of the methods I was told to use to snooker a prospect into letting me show them the plan of "D & J Enterprises"; never be upfront by just telling the prospect this is Amway's marketing plan. Of course this boomeranged ON ME and only hurt MY INTEGRITY with my friends, family, and just plain nice people, honest people who trusted me to be honest about this as I was honest in 99% of everything else. I sacrificed my good honest reputation to do the business plan the way the "PINS" or big boys told me to do, until after the prospect had seen the "circles upon circles" for D.D. or Direct Distributor opportunity.

I had put that all behind me, so I thought, until a friend of mine told me he was starting an internet business and asked if I be interested discussing it at my home that evening. Why of course I'd be interested I said. Hadn't my WebTV shown a whole new e-commerce coming of age on the World Wide Web? Now I could get in the ground floor with my own internet website. I was excited to say the least. Then my wife detected this as just Amway Online during the presentation by my friend, even though she had never worked Amway. I rebuked her with if it was then how come their Trade name of "Amway" wasn't on it? I wanted to believe so bad in this new e-commerce opportunity, that I totally discounted her objections.

She woke up to let the dog outside and went searching on the internet for more proof and in less than a minute found your website "Amway - all the business myths". I read it and my entire Amway experiences of 23 years ago came flooding back as I read about myth after myth debunked by you. A few hours later, my friend came by to pick up the book and several tapes he had loaned me. I confronted him with your website and he told me he was short on time because he was on his way to work, but that he could email me his explanations by next week. I warned him, as a friend warns a friend, how concerned I was for his integrity. I urged him to read your site carefully at his leisure so he could formulate a detailed reply on paper soon, to satisfy me and all the future prospects' objections, because your site would be the killer of his future chances of success if not the Empire's future of success.

So I am safe. Thanks to you for the detailed analysis of the old dog's new tricks. You deserve a medal! And I have to thank my WebTV for making such internet access possible for a computer illiterate as me. My wife. "I love our WebTV!" Both you and it have saved me from making a major mistake, AGAIN! I am a quick forgetter.

This experience has shown me how valuable the Internet is for sharing information at the speed of light.

Thanks again from the bottom of my heart,

I've been reading everything I could find on the 'net about Amway/Quixtar. I only wish it was BEFORE I fell for it.

On 7/31/99 I signed up for Quixtar and was then handed an Amway kit (just the paperwork no products) and when I protested that I wanted nothing to do with Amway I was assured that it was completely separate. The information I have gathered this week tells me otherwise. I've avoided all the calls from the guy who signed me up (who keeps wanting me to "meet a few people" and start the brainwashing process) and he didn't send me my copy of the contract I signed for three weeks!

I am luckier than many, however, because other that my original distributor fees I have invested neither a nickel of my money nor a minute of my time. I feel like I'm dodging a bullet; I'm getting out before I get in deep.

today I'm writing a letter to the guy who signed me up and asking for a refund of the fee I paid and dropping off the letter and the kit he gave me at his office. All the refund info I've seen on the 'net mentions things like tapes and products an nothing mentions distributor fees. Can I expect to see my money back?

You're site is awesome. Writing to you from Mexico as an ex-distributor in Carlos Marin's system. (Dig into his story. He quit the business, interesting!) I can't believe how long it took to find it. It's not linked up to many other sites. Did you know that? I only found it because that Indian guy who write the article (know who I'm talking about?) out in his bibliography. Get your site out there more, Scott! Anyway, I think you're giving the AMO's message too much credit in your "positive things about Amway" section. (Sorry, I can't remember exactly what you called it!) The AMO's message is so negative and distorts so much. Think about the contact tape. It starts off telling us how bad the rest of the economy is and that if you're thinking about starting any other business: just forget it! According to the AMO's, the situation is dismal! Amway is the only hope! God bless Amway! Have you read the contacting book by Burke Hedges? If not, buy it. It's called "Who Stole the American Dream. Not to be believed! I too would someday like to be financially free and I think I just might do it. However, as a Christian I just can't let this be the focus of my life. There is a difference between a goal and an obsession.

People who are "healthily wealthy" know that any expensive car thy buy is incidental. It's fleeting. We all die and that's it! Wealth may be enjoyed and that's it. Not worshipped. Most wealthy people live exactly the opposite of the way diamonds portray their lifestyles. Many are at least somewhat frugal. Many you would not even know they were rich by the exterior appearance. That's what I dig. Perspective. Respect for the schoolteacher who may never be financially free and yet is doing God's work. I feel so free out of Amway! I go to weddings and parties and I talk to people just to talk to them! I can really care about them for them, not as a potential downline! Now I see a construction worker on the street and I can say alright-he's doing his part. He's not a chump employee loser! It's exhilarating to fell so free! Don't get me wrong. I want success. That's why I quit Amway after 4 years. There is nothing wrong with that. But perspective! The financial rewards should come as an incidental by-product of doing God's work. Yes, my friend, Amway truly sucks! 

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